So let’s give you a new, 21st century reason to start using them again.
While compliments might seem like a lame “ass kissing” way to get in a woman’s pants, it’s actually still incredibly effective… if you do it right.
The WRONG way how to compliment a woman is to smother her in compliments in such a way that she knows you’re only doing it because you want one thing: sex.
I call this, appropriately, “the idiot’s compliment.”
Women are smart and you need to be smarter so you can afford to use the idiots compliment.
Pick small, well-though-out (that’s the important part) compliments to place at the right time, and don’t dwell on them or overdo it.
For example, you can tell a woman you love a specific piece of jewelry or something she’s wearing and then tell her WHY you like it.
The “WHY” is the key factor to your compliment not sounding like bullshit or a line.
The other thing the “WHY” does is it actually forces you to come up with a reason you like something about her, and if you actually like it, then naturally it can’t be bullshit.
Now let’s checkout some ways how to compliment a woman that absolutely DO NOT work!
Telling her she is hot or has a “great ass” upon first meeting is too much too fast.
Telling her you’re falling in love with her or you think she’s the “one” can also be too much to fast, it’s also a very common lie that a lot of men use and it may cause her to trust you less.
Why Use Compliments?
Compliments say some great things about you.
First, generally successful people feel the best about themselves and are therefore willing to give the most.
They give money to charity, they give advice, and they give COMPLIMENTS.
Compliments tell women, and everyone else, that you’re happy with your life, that you’re secure, and that therefore you’re probably successful.
It also lets people know you’re outspoken, extroverted, social, and that you think your opinion matters to people.
It’s important you use compliments within the first 5 minutes of meeting a new girl that you’re interested in. First impressions and the first 5 minutes is so important, that it is the single skill most worth mastering.
If you can master it, everything will be downhill and enjoyable from there.
And it you blow the first 5 minutes, women won’t come near you with a 10 foot pole.
Click here to learn more about how to compliment a woman and master the first 5 minutes.