So you want to escape the dreaded friend zone? It’s easy! But here’s something you must consider first… Friends can become lovers but lovers can never become friends again – there is NO GOING BACK! Even the most mature people still have deep feelings for each other long after the relationship has ended.
Because of this, most people are sometimes worried about risking making a move to turn a friendship into a relationship and very often one person prefers that you both stay friends to avoid risking this happening. When one person want’s to avoid a relationship to save the friend it is often called putting someone “friend zone.”
The friend zone also means a couple other dissappointing things. For example, it is also polite way for a woman to tell you she’s not interested in sex. Instead she uses the excuse of saving the friendship to avoid sex because she simply is not interested in sleep with you yet. In many “friend zone” cases you probably truly want to sleep with the woman, but are denied.
Also in some rare “friend zone” cases, a women you’re friends with but also want to date may have a crush on one of your friends, so she may this may be her reason for staying just friends, even if she may be interested in dating you. Or if she thinks one of her friends wants to date you she may put you in the “friend zone” to avoid hurting her friend’s feelings.
So how do you know when you’re in the friend zone?!
Well, friend zone tests were created for the purpose of gauging whether a girl is interested in getting romantic… and becoming MORE than just friends. Becaus these tests rely on ideas from pop-culture they might not seam like the “real deal” to you at first, but indeed they have proven very effective for men over time.
Many friend zone tests can be found all over the internet and if you try all of them it may just leave you more confused than when you started. Keep in mind, that generally, friend zone test results are the OPPOSITE of what you would think… the lower the score, the higher the chance of getting out of the friend zone. So LOWER is better.
Make sure to consider these important points…
1. Be careful of tests. Keep in mind that the result of a friend zone test is not the END ALL decider of your relationship with a woman. You still don’t have to accept friendship forever – there are many of things you can do, many of which don’t include tests and are not covered in this article. The woman you’re interested in may also change her feelings about you depending on a lot of factors so you need to be aware of those to. Make a list. What might impact her decision that is out of your control? Might that ever change?
2. Consider reason for her decision. There may be factors that caused her to arrive at the decision to stay friends with you. You may have heard that she likes somebody. You may have heard that her friends do not like you. You may not know but she may also be making way to please a friend who is in love with you. There are silly possibilities but one of them may just be what you need to know in order to stand your ground.
3. Give her time. This is the greatest but the most difficult thing you must do. Having the patience to allow her to see you as a boyfriend may just cause her to change her heart. She might just see something in you that she never saw earlier in your friendship.
Getting out of the friend zone is hard work – but it’s not impossible. You really only need 2 things to make it work… you need desire and you need a game plan.
The game plan is where the extra help saves you big time! There are actually 3 unique questions you can ask a woman to not just find out if she likes you but to know exactly what you must to seduce her no matter how long you’ve been friends. It’s called the Pandora’s Box System and it’s the most simple, effective and discreet system for seducing a woman without rejection.
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